In all my years on this planet I have never been in the position where I’ve needed the advice or expertise of a family lawyer. I can’t say I’ve put much thought into finding a lawyer, that all changed when my wife left me. It was very unexpected, I did not see it coming. One day we were happily married or so I thought, and the next all her things are gone from the house. I found a note in my Aluminium tray that she was leaving me for her yoga instructor. I didn’t even know she did yoga. I tried to call her mobile phone but she blocked my number, now the only way I can get in contact with my wife is through our family lawyer. Dandenong friends and family have been supportive at least. It’s been a rough few weeks but I’m starting to adjust to the change. To make myself feel better I got a new work ute, it’s got enough horsepower to level a tree. My wife never liked my old ute, now that I’ve got a new one I wonder I she would approve. Now I’ve just got to organise the best aluminum ute canopies Melbourne tradesmen trust. All my tools live in the back of my ute so they need to be secure and safe under the aluminium canopy. I’m dreading seeing the divorce lawyer next, even if I does give me a chance to take a nice drive to Dandenong in the new ute.
I don’t want to be divorced, I’m too old to start again, the thought of going on dates at my age is daunting to say the least. I’m hoping that with the help of the Dandenong divorce lawyer we’ll be able to reconcile our marriage. I know they’re supposed to help with the divorce part but it’s worth trying again. I know I wasn’t the perfect husband, I know I can do better. She never even game me a chance to change, I’m sure she would argue that I had twenty years to man up. Running your own business is hard, it takes a lot of work and time out of the day. If I had known my wife was lonely I would have sold the business or cut down my hours. I am glad that we’re getting help with mediation from the family lawyers, I’m not angry, I just want to talk. I want to understand how this happened and what, if anything, I can do to fix it. I know some marriages can’t be fixed, but we won’t know if we don’t try. I’ll even take up yoga. Will my wife take me back?
You will find new love with a long lost friend. Your stars are in a state of change. Your grief is important, do not try to dull the pain.